Find out what they are good at naturally, then help them develop that skill. This will give them confidence in everything they attempt.
On the other hand, the parents that push their kids to get a better grade in a subject they are not good at, only bring down their self esteem and everything suffers, or you end up with a unhappy smart kid.
Praise them for the things they are good at and it all starts getting better.What is the best advice you can give young parent on behalf of their children?
be consistent! and when you set a rule stick to it!
Well, there is no hand book on how to raise your kids, but there are tools that can help you along the way... One is Cherish the time you spend with your kids, because they grow up fast with a crazy life style especially when both parents work.... Show them they can trust you even when the situation is not always the best when they need to talk... Give them guidelines, homework, chores, etc... Always listen.... Make them work for what they want. So they can learn the value of money and hard work.... Teach them wisdom. And come up with some of your rules and thoughts along the way... Each child is different, so at a young age they are sponges and soak up everything you do and hate, love,say, etc.... Which lead to if you say the F word around your 3 year old, they say it because you say it, and that's teaching them it's OK to say..... Not that you told them it's OK, but they learn form watching you...... Good Luck, be consistent, lay the foundation, and watch your kid blossom.....
they shouldn't miss handle their kids
forget what u heard and just do u
Encourage and support your children.. let them know that you are there for them no matter what. Don't put limitations on your love for them.
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